tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2720424727238569204.post7627256928940211969..comments2011-09-10T03:03:07.908+02:00PJ Trell Show Bloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07786889720765534173noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2720424727238569204.post-89386546440805532212011-09-10T03:03:07.908+02:002011-09-10T03:03:07.908+02:00Thank you PJ Trell for sharing this article from Laura Schaefer match.com and also thanks to Freya, The Goddess Of Information for finding it. <br /><br />It was very interesting to me and it is my sincere and humble opinion that men and women will always be different and I am so glad that we are. I know that we go through ups and downs and it sucks sometimes, but can you possibly imagine that we both finally understood each other? That would be weird! Do not get me wrong, it might seem cool at first for matters that are important to us, but what about free will? <br /><br />For instance, in relevance to the article, let us say that women would let men watch their game instead of having men listen to them ramble on about their bad day at work that led up to her chipped fingernail and overindulgence of double chocolate brownie ice cream to calm her nerves which, by the way, made her gain an extra five pounds and with time she let herself go and gained an extra 50 pounds, and now they find her less attractive. <br /><br />Or vice versa, you listened to her ramble on about her bad day at work that led to you not watching your game, which, by the way was the first time in 12 years that your favorite team finally made made it into the finals after years of hard work and trades and now you possibly missed the greatest game ever played, so you began drinking to focus and listen to her easier, because women do not really want a solution just an ear that listens, understands, and that led up to more drinking and years later you became an addicted alcoholic with a fat pot belly gut.<br /><br />Okay, that may be a little exaggerated, but along the same lines of what I am trying to say. Both of these scenerios were important to each respective person. Let us be honest, men will never be like women, nor will women be like men. Thank goodness for that.<br /><br />We may start to understand each other better, but never fully. That is reality. Of course each experience is different for everybody. Not everyone is the same. Love them for who they are, not for who you want them to be. I am not saying this is the secret, but it sure is a good start.Jesse Aldanahttp://www.facebook.com/#!/aldanajessenoreply@blogger.com